I'm trying to do better with keeping up with the blog. (Truly, Beth, I am trying.) It's been an interesting spring. Colder than normal, in my opinion. The husband says we're in a drought, but it's scheduled to rain for the next three days. We'll see this summer, I guess. He's usually right about the weather.
We left for Indiana on the District Disaster bus on Sunday morning, March 29th. There were 14 of us. A decidedly diverse group. By the following Saturday, April 4 we were ready to come home after a very fulfilling week. The house where we stayed was very nice. Us girls were able to sleep on bottom bunks. No one had to climb up :) However, our bathroom had to be shared with one man, which was a problem of sorts. But, it was manageable. Our work team consisted of husband, Michael, Ginger, Diane, Pam, Mary Sue and myself. We worked with a couple who had had 4' of water in their front enclosed porch and back laundry room. Looking at the layout, it won't be the last time, as their house sits lower than the street. We layed laminate flooring in the living room and gutted the laundry room as well as working some on the porch. We scrubbed the siding to get the mold off and worked on getting the fungus off the overhangs. I learned to love the cleaner (Simple Green) we were using and bought some as soon as I got home. The couple had some medical issues ~ the wife with an abscessed tooth and the husb. having just gotten out of the hospital with gut problems. They did ask us to pray for them and that encircling of the couple was a highlight. Another highlight was the coordinators. Couldn't help but love them, as they were kind and helpful. The last day was a little edgy, but it was only for a short time. The non-Brethren help was marvelous! Poppa Doty and Mr. Sprinkle were highlights of our trip. On Saturday it was an honor to "award" Mr. Sprinkle with a Brethren Disaster Relief hat. He cried and it was hard not to do the same. I told him since that Methodist Church didn't have a baptismal I could only make him an honorary Brethren :) That seemed to tickle him.
So we headed home. Of course the next week was Holy Week and that included a wonderful Love Feast on Maundy Thursday. What a joy and delight. Brother Stan Shifflett made us a stunning foot tub. He made two, one of which will go to the Disaster Relief Auction. The Lord has blessed him with so much talent. What great love!!!
This week the hubby is busy trying to get the last bit of stuff on the Haiti bus and get it shipped out of here. It's almost filled to the brim. What fun! We want to surround it in prayer to arrive safely and be "cheap" to get out of customs.
Spring is truly here. The potatoes are in the ground waiting to grow and we're waiting for the new "kids" to arrive probably the first week of May. The girls are already starting to show sights of "motherhood" and I can't wait to see the little ones. That's always a highlight of spring.
I'll be sure and post pictures. Until then... Happy Spring everyone!!!
Monday, April 13, 2009
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
It's about time :)
I was reminded today that it's been months since my last blog. How true and I send my apologies across the sea. It's been a good year thus far. Though the economy is in the perverbial toilet that's not what real life is about. The fact that the Missouri State Police would see me as a domestic terrorist because I supported Ron Paul is not what life's about either.
Life is about... well, living and loving.
These last months have been a bit of a blur. In early February we headed to LaJeune Haiti again. It was a wonderful trip, as expected. The children all look so much healthier than last year and were so glad to see us! We had a VBS for about 175 children and it was a great success. We had a small medical clinic giving out tylenol, allergy meds, lotions, eye drops, reading glasses and worm medicine. It was hard to come home. The weather was in the 70's just perfect for daily work and dipped into the 60's at night which made for restful sleep. Could we ask for more? I'm especially grateful to MAF for flying us into Pignon rather than the 8 hour horror ride through the mountains.
I'm having a blast with the Sunday School class I'm teaching. It's the "young adult" age group from 18-35 or so and it so refreshing to find some young people really willing to see what the Bible has to say to us in the 21st century. We're all finding it more relevant than we expected.
In two weeks we'll be leaving for a Disaster Response trip to Indiana for a week. I'm not sure what all we'll be doing, but the group that's going is fun, so that is a good sign. From there it's Easter and Love Feast time (my favorite holiday of the year) and then into my birthday month... ugh... we can skip that. And then to San Diego for Annual Conference the end of June. The year will be half over by then. My how time flies when we are having fun.
Yesterday I had the semi-annual slicing and dicing from the dermatologist. I always look forward to that doctor visit, not because of the knife and needle, but because of the doctor! Dr. Jane Lynch is one of the best doctors I've had. She's to the point and has a good sense of humor. While she sewed me up yesterday we talked about a trip to Haiti the end of the year. I can't wait for her to go. She'll be such an asset. As for the slice and dice.... well, the biopsy will be back in two weeks. I'm used to this by now.
Weight Watchers. Janet is too fat. Everyone that reads this, knows that, so I finally decided it is past time to do something about it. Thus far I'm down 8 pounds and my goal is far, far away, but I am determined this time and want to make a life change so I can do more stuff with the grandchildren and play soccer more aptly with my Haitian children.
Since I tend to be a bit political, I want to simply say, I'm disgusted with the economy. People are being laid off not because of the down turn in $$, but because they are greedy and thoughtless! Our daughter last her job if 10 1/2 years and I have no doubt a little Philipino girl is now doing it from her own country. A woman in our church lost her job because it could be done in another office. An acquaintance lost his job of many years the week after he finished training an "assistant". Trash truck drivers are being laid off or hours cut. Are we really producing less trash? There should be laws against such foolish chess with peoples lives. If I were queen.... well... big business would not be happy ~ And now our commander in chief wants the vets to pay for their treatment when they come back from Iraq? You have GOT to kidding me. When AIG gets bonuses... If you want riots, they might be a coming...
Rain. We've had some lovely rains the last few days. We had, no decent snows this winter, though it was cold as the arctic. Too cold to snow, I guess. I thankful for the rain even though I much prefer sunshine (much to Dr. Lynch's dismay). I don't mind the March and April showers, as it makes for good hay in the summer.
Goats. I cannot this blog without mentioned my goats. We lost our poor Sarah in January and I was devastated! We still don't know what happened, but she will be sorely missed. She was a good milker and easy going. Esther, Ellie and Heidi are all poking out there and should be kidding in May. Old crone Oreo is still with us. She's getting thinner but gets around much better now that we did not breed her this year. Amos is just Amos. Our Llama Archie is doing his job and is as happy as can be. The guineas are adorable, though they are shunning on of their own and she is not happy. Henry tries to feed her extra, but those others just will not leave her be. I doubt she'll live through the summer because of the others. Not unlike human behavior against one another. I caught them in the highway a couple weeks ago. I shooed them back to the barn, but the rascals head to the road when they think I'm not looking. One of the red hens is doing the same. Hopefully they will not venture out and get hit by the traffic that frequents this major road.
Friday I will be heading to Fredericksburg to pick up the grands. Justin and Becca will celebrate their 14th wedding anniversary tomorrow. So they will be heading to a CAPS event and I'll bring the boys home here for the weekend. But, not before Luke's football game at 7:30 a.m. (Those schedulers are insane.) I look forward to seeing him play, just not at 7:30 a.m. !
So, times are busy, life is good and God is still on the Throne! Hallelujah!
Until next time... have courage
Life is about... well, living and loving.
These last months have been a bit of a blur. In early February we headed to LaJeune Haiti again. It was a wonderful trip, as expected. The children all look so much healthier than last year and were so glad to see us! We had a VBS for about 175 children and it was a great success. We had a small medical clinic giving out tylenol, allergy meds, lotions, eye drops, reading glasses and worm medicine. It was hard to come home. The weather was in the 70's just perfect for daily work and dipped into the 60's at night which made for restful sleep. Could we ask for more? I'm especially grateful to MAF for flying us into Pignon rather than the 8 hour horror ride through the mountains.
I'm having a blast with the Sunday School class I'm teaching. It's the "young adult" age group from 18-35 or so and it so refreshing to find some young people really willing to see what the Bible has to say to us in the 21st century. We're all finding it more relevant than we expected.
In two weeks we'll be leaving for a Disaster Response trip to Indiana for a week. I'm not sure what all we'll be doing, but the group that's going is fun, so that is a good sign. From there it's Easter and Love Feast time (my favorite holiday of the year) and then into my birthday month... ugh... we can skip that. And then to San Diego for Annual Conference the end of June. The year will be half over by then. My how time flies when we are having fun.
Yesterday I had the semi-annual slicing and dicing from the dermatologist. I always look forward to that doctor visit, not because of the knife and needle, but because of the doctor! Dr. Jane Lynch is one of the best doctors I've had. She's to the point and has a good sense of humor. While she sewed me up yesterday we talked about a trip to Haiti the end of the year. I can't wait for her to go. She'll be such an asset. As for the slice and dice.... well, the biopsy will be back in two weeks. I'm used to this by now.
Weight Watchers. Janet is too fat. Everyone that reads this, knows that, so I finally decided it is past time to do something about it. Thus far I'm down 8 pounds and my goal is far, far away, but I am determined this time and want to make a life change so I can do more stuff with the grandchildren and play soccer more aptly with my Haitian children.
Since I tend to be a bit political, I want to simply say, I'm disgusted with the economy. People are being laid off not because of the down turn in $$, but because they are greedy and thoughtless! Our daughter last her job if 10 1/2 years and I have no doubt a little Philipino girl is now doing it from her own country. A woman in our church lost her job because it could be done in another office. An acquaintance lost his job of many years the week after he finished training an "assistant". Trash truck drivers are being laid off or hours cut. Are we really producing less trash? There should be laws against such foolish chess with peoples lives. If I were queen.... well... big business would not be happy ~ And now our commander in chief wants the vets to pay for their treatment when they come back from Iraq? You have GOT to kidding me. When AIG gets bonuses... If you want riots, they might be a coming...
Rain. We've had some lovely rains the last few days. We had, no decent snows this winter, though it was cold as the arctic. Too cold to snow, I guess. I thankful for the rain even though I much prefer sunshine (much to Dr. Lynch's dismay). I don't mind the March and April showers, as it makes for good hay in the summer.
Goats. I cannot this blog without mentioned my goats. We lost our poor Sarah in January and I was devastated! We still don't know what happened, but she will be sorely missed. She was a good milker and easy going. Esther, Ellie and Heidi are all poking out there and should be kidding in May. Old crone Oreo is still with us. She's getting thinner but gets around much better now that we did not breed her this year. Amos is just Amos. Our Llama Archie is doing his job and is as happy as can be. The guineas are adorable, though they are shunning on of their own and she is not happy. Henry tries to feed her extra, but those others just will not leave her be. I doubt she'll live through the summer because of the others. Not unlike human behavior against one another. I caught them in the highway a couple weeks ago. I shooed them back to the barn, but the rascals head to the road when they think I'm not looking. One of the red hens is doing the same. Hopefully they will not venture out and get hit by the traffic that frequents this major road.
Friday I will be heading to Fredericksburg to pick up the grands. Justin and Becca will celebrate their 14th wedding anniversary tomorrow. So they will be heading to a CAPS event and I'll bring the boys home here for the weekend. But, not before Luke's football game at 7:30 a.m. (Those schedulers are insane.) I look forward to seeing him play, just not at 7:30 a.m. !
So, times are busy, life is good and God is still on the Throne! Hallelujah!
Until next time... have courage
Thursday, January 1, 2009
Blessed New Year!
Good bye 2008 ~ For many it was a sorry year, but for us, it was, basically a very good year. We went to Haiti last winter and it was the trip of my life, thus far and I look forward to going back next month. That started the year and we ended with the birth of our fourth grandson, Levi, who was born December 18th. So everything in between often paled in comparison. Our church denomination celebrated its 300th Anniversary in 2008 and it was a good Annual Conference in Richmond. The year ended for me in the basement of the home of a Sister in Christ while a group of us played dominoes. We pretty much laughed out the old year in to the new. It was a good way to end the year. Thanks to my youngest, I have discovered and come to love the writings of Patrick Taylor. Good Irishman he is. Thanks to keeping old addresses I was also able to find and reconnect with my closest cousin ever, who is hoping to come back to Canada from Ireland this year. Hurrah! Once she arrives there's a trip to Canada in the wind.
So what of 2009? Well, I started by cleaning out areas of clutter in the dining room, filling up a whole trashbag. Not a bad start. I decanted some herbal meds today and we have plenty to eat for supper. Better than 90% of the rest of the world. I have a journal to begin for this year and I'm really praying to be diligent enough to keep it. New year resolutions are rarely kept, but a few of mine for this year are: to be more positive in thought; to be more polite and kind and to study my Bible more faithfully. Not a bad start. Of course, you can add in all the lose weight and get fit and all those things that I "plan" to do, but know from past years it takes some planning and effort. We'll see. We already begin the year with a good lot of "busy-ness". Every weekend in January is taken and the first weekend of February I'll be in Haiti. I do have a few weeks off from there, but then we're headed to Indiana for a Disaster Trip in April ~ San Diego looms in June, and, if Beth immigrates, I'll be headed to Canada sometime. I have a feeling the year will go quickly. Ah, so I'll be closer to heaven than last year, so.
I thought I ought to do a bloggy for the new year and I guess this is it. May all my dear readers be blessed this year and while the economics of our nation appear to be in greater peril than in 2008, we must remember that money can't buy it all. Let us all learn more of working together for the common good of all. God bless us every one.
So what of 2009? Well, I started by cleaning out areas of clutter in the dining room, filling up a whole trashbag. Not a bad start. I decanted some herbal meds today and we have plenty to eat for supper. Better than 90% of the rest of the world. I have a journal to begin for this year and I'm really praying to be diligent enough to keep it. New year resolutions are rarely kept, but a few of mine for this year are: to be more positive in thought; to be more polite and kind and to study my Bible more faithfully. Not a bad start. Of course, you can add in all the lose weight and get fit and all those things that I "plan" to do, but know from past years it takes some planning and effort. We'll see. We already begin the year with a good lot of "busy-ness". Every weekend in January is taken and the first weekend of February I'll be in Haiti. I do have a few weeks off from there, but then we're headed to Indiana for a Disaster Trip in April ~ San Diego looms in June, and, if Beth immigrates, I'll be headed to Canada sometime. I have a feeling the year will go quickly. Ah, so I'll be closer to heaven than last year, so.
I thought I ought to do a bloggy for the new year and I guess this is it. May all my dear readers be blessed this year and while the economics of our nation appear to be in greater peril than in 2008, we must remember that money can't buy it all. Let us all learn more of working together for the common good of all. God bless us every one.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Sometimes
Sometimes I feel like screaming "this is not fair". Today is one of those days. We just spent a wonderful weekend with our oldest and youngest grandsons for their birthdays. It was a good weekend. On Saturday I was able to buy Luke his first Michael Crichton novel. Jurassic Park, no less. I remember when I bought that in hard back and read it. Great book. Then came the movie and I insisted that Rex read the novel before attending the movie. It was a great mother/son moment when we went to see that movie together after both having read the book. I can't wait for luke to finish it.To have that grandmother/grandson moment! He's only 8 years old, but loves the written word, so I have no doubt he will finish it. Then today.. today.. I learn that Michael Crichton has succumbed to that dreaded disease ... cancer .... at 66 years old. All the news reports say, "unexpectedly". How sad. I understand there is a last novel being held because he was ill. It'll be a best seller no doubt.
Sometimes I want to spit over death by disease, but cancer is the worst. It is no respecter of persons ~ race, sex, age... doesn't matter. It can strike children, teens, and on up to the aged. Doesn't matter. Cancer has to have erupted from the pit of hell to destroy those whom it touches. Only God can give peace to the soul stricken with this dis-ease. Thankfully, we have made great advances over the years. No longer is a diagnosis of cancer a death sentence, but it sure is a time stopper. Normality stops to make room for hospital gowns, tests upon tests, surgeries and chemical cocktails meant to poison the cells that have gone awry and kill them, lest they spread. The statistics proclaim 1 in 10 will be affected with cancer. One in ten? That means 10 of every 100. Well, that stands about true. In our church over the last few years there've been... let's see.... at least ten and two are currently in treatment, neither aged. Both with much to live for. I'm sure Michael Crichton had much yet to live for.
So, that's it.. I just needed to get that off my chest... More, something happier perhaps, later.
Sometimes I want to spit over death by disease, but cancer is the worst. It is no respecter of persons ~ race, sex, age... doesn't matter. It can strike children, teens, and on up to the aged. Doesn't matter. Cancer has to have erupted from the pit of hell to destroy those whom it touches. Only God can give peace to the soul stricken with this dis-ease. Thankfully, we have made great advances over the years. No longer is a diagnosis of cancer a death sentence, but it sure is a time stopper. Normality stops to make room for hospital gowns, tests upon tests, surgeries and chemical cocktails meant to poison the cells that have gone awry and kill them, lest they spread. The statistics proclaim 1 in 10 will be affected with cancer. One in ten? That means 10 of every 100. Well, that stands about true. In our church over the last few years there've been... let's see.... at least ten and two are currently in treatment, neither aged. Both with much to live for. I'm sure Michael Crichton had much yet to live for.
So, that's it.. I just needed to get that off my chest... More, something happier perhaps, later.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
Fall
Well dear readers, fall has come ~ for this year, in more ways than one!! Seems the economy is in free-fall and everyone is feeling a bit out of control of late. I can tell you that our retirement is all but gone and I warned our oldest son that he'll probably be providing the retirement house for his parents.. (Thankfully he didn't mind that.) I don't think the election will make much difference, unfortunately, but that's another topic for another time.
I've been spending the last few weeks in a free-fall of my own. On Sept. 17th our dear friend and brother, Pastor Geordany Joseph from LaJeune Haiti arrived. What joy to have him here with us for the last weeks. He is such a delight and has such a firm grasp on how the church "ought" to be. He brought with him letters for me from my "sons" (fre' mwen) and "daughter" (si' mwen) and some pictures and gifts. Of course, this old woman cried for those loved ones so far away. Since then we have been running quite a bit to get him into as many churches and homes as possible. Feeding the children is his first priority. One of the orphans is sick with malnutrition as I write :( Second priority is getting the new orphanage building finished, then a school. There is so much to do there and little money to do it with. He has received some help here, which I praise the Lord for. He wants us to come to his wedding in December, so we planned to do that until we saw the air fares. It'd cost us over 2000 just for the flights. Somehow I don't see that happening. BUT, there is agroup being formed to go the first part of Feb and I'll be on that plane, Lord willing. The fares drop substantially after Christmas. I had so hoped to be in that wedding though... What a joy to be included, and Pastor wanted the husband to act as a witness. Oh well, maybe God will have us go yet. Today the husband took Pastor for an eye exam. They discovered cateracts. He'll have them done at a clinic in Haiti (much to our chagrin), but there is no $$ for that kind of thing here. Monday we'll take him to the dentist. We want him to be as healthy as possible when he leaves to go home. I know he's homesick though. His betrothed texts and calls daily, as does the orphanage. I can't wait to meet her. I need to sharpen my creole, though.. We were able to set up a bank account here so that funds can be more readily available to him. That is great news and makes life much easier in the long run. Of course, now we must get the word out to churches to send funds to us instead of Haiti. We'll just deposit them in his account and he can draw them out down there via his own bank in Cap Haitien. Before he had to pay a premium to get American money.
On a sadder note, a dear sister and friend was found to have colon cancer on the 17th of September. Lisa was diagnosed with diverticulitis six months ago, but that's not what it was. We are all pretty disgusted that no follow up was made, but that's too typical. She is only 42 with a ten year old at home. Her fight will be long and tiring, but we are praying that God will heal her totally. HE is in that business, I know.
On the church end... the year is winding down. It's been a busy one. DIstrict Conference begins in just a few short weeks. I usually enjoy District Conference ~ we'll see this year. I have one more year on the Board and then will be off. I doubt I'll be re-elected the following year, but I've been fooled before... I've enjoyed my time on the Ministry Commission. The local church is puttering along well. We are praying that the Springs campaign will revive them to better and more willingly serve their Master.
Standing Committee is already pulling its hair out preparing for next Annual Conference in CA. I'm looking forward to going (I'd love to get a bunch of folks to go early on the train), but I'm not looking forward to the nasty business. What will become of our denomination I do not know. I know that not a few are getting tired of the battering. That does not bode well. On the upside, if the economy goes down the tubes it may solidify us more closely to the Word of God and the person/diety of Jesus. One can only hope.
So, for now, it's a lovely, fall day and I have clothes to hang out and ironing to do. I'll close and get my womens-work done so I can start on the important stuff... LOL
Til next time... keep the Faith that was given to you by Christ Jesus
I've been spending the last few weeks in a free-fall of my own. On Sept. 17th our dear friend and brother, Pastor Geordany Joseph from LaJeune Haiti arrived. What joy to have him here with us for the last weeks. He is such a delight and has such a firm grasp on how the church "ought" to be. He brought with him letters for me from my "sons" (fre' mwen) and "daughter" (si' mwen) and some pictures and gifts. Of course, this old woman cried for those loved ones so far away. Since then we have been running quite a bit to get him into as many churches and homes as possible. Feeding the children is his first priority. One of the orphans is sick with malnutrition as I write :( Second priority is getting the new orphanage building finished, then a school. There is so much to do there and little money to do it with. He has received some help here, which I praise the Lord for. He wants us to come to his wedding in December, so we planned to do that until we saw the air fares. It'd cost us over 2000 just for the flights. Somehow I don't see that happening. BUT, there is agroup being formed to go the first part of Feb and I'll be on that plane, Lord willing. The fares drop substantially after Christmas. I had so hoped to be in that wedding though... What a joy to be included, and Pastor wanted the husband to act as a witness. Oh well, maybe God will have us go yet. Today the husband took Pastor for an eye exam. They discovered cateracts. He'll have them done at a clinic in Haiti (much to our chagrin), but there is no $$ for that kind of thing here. Monday we'll take him to the dentist. We want him to be as healthy as possible when he leaves to go home. I know he's homesick though. His betrothed texts and calls daily, as does the orphanage. I can't wait to meet her. I need to sharpen my creole, though.. We were able to set up a bank account here so that funds can be more readily available to him. That is great news and makes life much easier in the long run. Of course, now we must get the word out to churches to send funds to us instead of Haiti. We'll just deposit them in his account and he can draw them out down there via his own bank in Cap Haitien. Before he had to pay a premium to get American money.
On a sadder note, a dear sister and friend was found to have colon cancer on the 17th of September. Lisa was diagnosed with diverticulitis six months ago, but that's not what it was. We are all pretty disgusted that no follow up was made, but that's too typical. She is only 42 with a ten year old at home. Her fight will be long and tiring, but we are praying that God will heal her totally. HE is in that business, I know.
On the church end... the year is winding down. It's been a busy one. DIstrict Conference begins in just a few short weeks. I usually enjoy District Conference ~ we'll see this year. I have one more year on the Board and then will be off. I doubt I'll be re-elected the following year, but I've been fooled before... I've enjoyed my time on the Ministry Commission. The local church is puttering along well. We are praying that the Springs campaign will revive them to better and more willingly serve their Master.
Standing Committee is already pulling its hair out preparing for next Annual Conference in CA. I'm looking forward to going (I'd love to get a bunch of folks to go early on the train), but I'm not looking forward to the nasty business. What will become of our denomination I do not know. I know that not a few are getting tired of the battering. That does not bode well. On the upside, if the economy goes down the tubes it may solidify us more closely to the Word of God and the person/diety of Jesus. One can only hope.
So, for now, it's a lovely, fall day and I have clothes to hang out and ironing to do. I'll close and get my womens-work done so I can start on the important stuff... LOL
Til next time... keep the Faith that was given to you by Christ Jesus
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Just another Thursday
I had said that I would do better with writing my blogs. It's been a coupla weeks now, so time for another. It seems the days fly like the wind, ever faster and faster. But, that's life after 50 I guess.
The summer is quickly coming to a close. While the days are still hot and steamy the nights are cooler and more comfortable. The almanac calls for a harsh winter and I wouldn't be surprised. The garden is just about done. Just a few tomatoes here and there and a few beans drying on the vine for me to shell. God is so good to send us such good food from the work of my dear Henry's hands. I was going to say "our" hands, but in reality, I've had little to do with it. I'm not good in the heat at all.
Life on the croft is good this time of year. Our pantry is full and our time is well spent ministering to those whom we love. The only thing I wish was different was that I wish I had a maid and a cook and then I'd be set. But, that's not going to happen, so I need to be a better manager of my time. (Of course, here I sit in front of the computer...)
This blog will be a bit rambling, as I've no bones to pick, no ideas to discuss ~ it's just busy-ness. Through my life I've had a lot of friends. Some were truer than others and two were lost to circumstances, but by and large I have alot of friends. Nancy has been my friend since I was 7. She moved into the neighborhood just prior to the first subdivision being built. She and I hit it off pretty good considering we didn't go to the same school in the early days. We spent alot of time together ~ she with me on the farm and I with her in her basement playing dress-ups. We still honor one another's birthdays.. Hers November 23rd. Trisha has been my friend since first grade. (Kindergarten was just for city kids back then.) We don't keep in touch much, but we know we'll always "be there". Her birthday? January 1. Funny how those things stick with you. As the years moved on there was Patty, who I still keep in touch with pretty regularly. Then as an adult there was Dotty. I'll never forget Dotty, though I have no clue where she is now, or even if she's still with us. She kept me safe in a time when I wasn't. Then there was Sandy. Sandy and I went through some times together. She was one of the photographers at Justins' wedding. She was pregnant with her first child when I was pregnant with my last. After her came Joyce. Joyce and I are buddies still and talk on the phone at least once a month or more. We were once enemies, but God fixed that all up with a Love Feast and we never have had a harsh word since. After Joyce came Carol up in WV and we are still friends as well. Then came Brenda who I still keep in touch with. During my friendship with Carol I found a new friend. The first friend I ever lost to a disagreement. We had different ideas on child rearing and it destroyed our relationship. I'm sorry that happened, but there was nothing I could do.. Believe me I tried. She was the first friend I'd ever lost. Until that time I had remained friends with all that I had ever been friends with.... many unnamed on this list. It was devastating to me and my family. Recovery was slow and it still stings when I think of it. From that time, in my 40's, friendships came slower, just due to my husband's new call and my wariness, I guess. It was not until coming here that I started developing new friendships ~ Lisa, Dee, Carole, Pam, Carol, Crystal, Beth, Charlotte, Lisa, Joan, Toni, Diane..... and others. They are still with me and what fun we have!! During the years I've made some internet friends ~ Kelly, Jenni, Katie, Joan, Jean, Kimberly, Joanie and many, many others. All I've kept in touch with pretty much, save one ~ who is another friend lost to the fires of disagreement and irreconcilable differences. All these people... not acquaintences who I just spend some time with and move on, but friends. People who respond to me and love me "anyway". I guess the loss of two in 52 years isn't bad, is it?
So, over the years I have been so blessed to have so many friends that I can call on, visit, lean on and be there for. Some people can only say they've have a few friends over the years. I've had many and I am so very thankful. For those of you who have put up with me, I am ever grateful, as I am a task, I know. So, maybe that's what this blog is about. Saying "thanks" for the memories and "thanks" for the love and to say while I'm blessed beyond measure, I'm sorry for the losses.
'Til next time :)
The summer is quickly coming to a close. While the days are still hot and steamy the nights are cooler and more comfortable. The almanac calls for a harsh winter and I wouldn't be surprised. The garden is just about done. Just a few tomatoes here and there and a few beans drying on the vine for me to shell. God is so good to send us such good food from the work of my dear Henry's hands. I was going to say "our" hands, but in reality, I've had little to do with it. I'm not good in the heat at all.
Life on the croft is good this time of year. Our pantry is full and our time is well spent ministering to those whom we love. The only thing I wish was different was that I wish I had a maid and a cook and then I'd be set. But, that's not going to happen, so I need to be a better manager of my time. (Of course, here I sit in front of the computer...)
This blog will be a bit rambling, as I've no bones to pick, no ideas to discuss ~ it's just busy-ness. Through my life I've had a lot of friends. Some were truer than others and two were lost to circumstances, but by and large I have alot of friends. Nancy has been my friend since I was 7. She moved into the neighborhood just prior to the first subdivision being built. She and I hit it off pretty good considering we didn't go to the same school in the early days. We spent alot of time together ~ she with me on the farm and I with her in her basement playing dress-ups. We still honor one another's birthdays.. Hers November 23rd. Trisha has been my friend since first grade. (Kindergarten was just for city kids back then.) We don't keep in touch much, but we know we'll always "be there". Her birthday? January 1. Funny how those things stick with you. As the years moved on there was Patty, who I still keep in touch with pretty regularly. Then as an adult there was Dotty. I'll never forget Dotty, though I have no clue where she is now, or even if she's still with us. She kept me safe in a time when I wasn't. Then there was Sandy. Sandy and I went through some times together. She was one of the photographers at Justins' wedding. She was pregnant with her first child when I was pregnant with my last. After her came Joyce. Joyce and I are buddies still and talk on the phone at least once a month or more. We were once enemies, but God fixed that all up with a Love Feast and we never have had a harsh word since. After Joyce came Carol up in WV and we are still friends as well. Then came Brenda who I still keep in touch with. During my friendship with Carol I found a new friend. The first friend I ever lost to a disagreement. We had different ideas on child rearing and it destroyed our relationship. I'm sorry that happened, but there was nothing I could do.. Believe me I tried. She was the first friend I'd ever lost. Until that time I had remained friends with all that I had ever been friends with.... many unnamed on this list. It was devastating to me and my family. Recovery was slow and it still stings when I think of it. From that time, in my 40's, friendships came slower, just due to my husband's new call and my wariness, I guess. It was not until coming here that I started developing new friendships ~ Lisa, Dee, Carole, Pam, Carol, Crystal, Beth, Charlotte, Lisa, Joan, Toni, Diane..... and others. They are still with me and what fun we have!! During the years I've made some internet friends ~ Kelly, Jenni, Katie, Joan, Jean, Kimberly, Joanie and many, many others. All I've kept in touch with pretty much, save one ~ who is another friend lost to the fires of disagreement and irreconcilable differences. All these people... not acquaintences who I just spend some time with and move on, but friends. People who respond to me and love me "anyway". I guess the loss of two in 52 years isn't bad, is it?
So, over the years I have been so blessed to have so many friends that I can call on, visit, lean on and be there for. Some people can only say they've have a few friends over the years. I've had many and I am so very thankful. For those of you who have put up with me, I am ever grateful, as I am a task, I know. So, maybe that's what this blog is about. Saying "thanks" for the memories and "thanks" for the love and to say while I'm blessed beyond measure, I'm sorry for the losses.
'Til next time :)
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Banner Day
Well, dear readers, it's been a long time since I wrote on this blog. Primarily because I lost interest for a while, which is a story unto itself. I closed this blog to all but closest family some months ago in response to something/one. I did it as a gesture of peace, as the Bible says that we are to do what we can do to make peace, but my action didn't make peace anyway, so? After these months of being "private" I decided to go "public" again. So, those that want to read, can and those that don't like what I have to say... well, don't read the blog and for heavens sake, don't forward it to your friends and neighbors saying "guess who said what". Good grief. Grow up!
So, with that thought in mind, I'm trying to think about what this summer has wrought. Well, I'm much healthier than I was this time last year and we've had many happy moments in 2008 thus far! I've made some new friends and am getting ready to teach a new Sunday School class. Lots of other little stuff is going on as well, but 'm too lazy to list it all.
We did have Luke and Blake for a week the first part of August and what a joy that was! Those boys are so much fun to have around. I only wish Jacob could have been part of the fun as well, but... Having the grandchildren without the parents allow for a lot of "what happens at Grandma's and Grandpa's stays at Grandma's and Grandpa's" stuff. Little of it stays "private", but I'd like to think they'll be special memories attached that will last a lifetime.
Speaking of lifetimes... My brother found out some interesting information about our family these last weeks. It's disheartening to find out that the name you've carried all your life and the history you've pointed to as yours... well, isn't. We found that our ancestors joined up with another unrelated family and took their name in the early 1800's. Don't know why, but they did. With that came some freedom though. It explains why we all have such distinctive British/Irish characteristics. It would appear that all four sides of my parenthood were Irish for the most part with a bit of british sprinkled in on my grandmother's side ~ and even that's a maybe. I have a feeling he hitched a boat from the Island to Britian and caught the ship there.
Another lifetime moment occurred just last night. I enlisted my youngest, and most willing daughter-in-love to help me re-do a room in the house. In her great wisdom *hi, Julie* she suggested doing the hall closet first. Now, those of you that have been in my home know that the hall closet is under the stairs and scary at best, as I stuffed a bunch of stuff in there when we moved in. So last night we tackled the closet. Inside a foot locker I re-discovered the baby blankets from Rex along with a bunch of old pictures from way long ago and some from not so way long ago. Lots of memories of baby Rexy flooded the mind. They were sweet and great reminders of a good and much younger time. After cleaning out the mess, getting a stack of trash and a stack of Goodwill stuff and finding my long, lost CD's, we all went out for Kline's Custard. YES! It was worth the work.
So,it's a lazy Sunday afternoon and I'm going in to have a nice cup of tea now. I'll try to do better at keeping up, but no promises. I just promise you can read them if you want without asking "permission".
All for now.... Keep Christ at the center.... later
So, with that thought in mind, I'm trying to think about what this summer has wrought. Well, I'm much healthier than I was this time last year and we've had many happy moments in 2008 thus far! I've made some new friends and am getting ready to teach a new Sunday School class. Lots of other little stuff is going on as well, but 'm too lazy to list it all.
We did have Luke and Blake for a week the first part of August and what a joy that was! Those boys are so much fun to have around. I only wish Jacob could have been part of the fun as well, but... Having the grandchildren without the parents allow for a lot of "what happens at Grandma's and Grandpa's stays at Grandma's and Grandpa's" stuff. Little of it stays "private", but I'd like to think they'll be special memories attached that will last a lifetime.
Speaking of lifetimes... My brother found out some interesting information about our family these last weeks. It's disheartening to find out that the name you've carried all your life and the history you've pointed to as yours... well, isn't. We found that our ancestors joined up with another unrelated family and took their name in the early 1800's. Don't know why, but they did. With that came some freedom though. It explains why we all have such distinctive British/Irish characteristics. It would appear that all four sides of my parenthood were Irish for the most part with a bit of british sprinkled in on my grandmother's side ~ and even that's a maybe. I have a feeling he hitched a boat from the Island to Britian and caught the ship there.
Another lifetime moment occurred just last night. I enlisted my youngest, and most willing daughter-in-love to help me re-do a room in the house. In her great wisdom *hi, Julie* she suggested doing the hall closet first. Now, those of you that have been in my home know that the hall closet is under the stairs and scary at best, as I stuffed a bunch of stuff in there when we moved in. So last night we tackled the closet. Inside a foot locker I re-discovered the baby blankets from Rex along with a bunch of old pictures from way long ago and some from not so way long ago. Lots of memories of baby Rexy flooded the mind. They were sweet and great reminders of a good and much younger time. After cleaning out the mess, getting a stack of trash and a stack of Goodwill stuff and finding my long, lost CD's, we all went out for Kline's Custard. YES! It was worth the work.
So,it's a lazy Sunday afternoon and I'm going in to have a nice cup of tea now. I'll try to do better at keeping up, but no promises. I just promise you can read them if you want without asking "permission".
All for now.... Keep Christ at the center.... later
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